Online Couples Counseling

in New York, Iowa, & all PsyPact states

Are You Feeling Disconnected From Each Other?

It’s too bad the Beatles weren’t totally right when they sang “love is all you need.” Even the most loving couples hit rough patches sometimes.

Perhaps you feel frustrated and out-of-sync with your partner(s). You are:

  • Arguing about little things that used to not matter

  • Disagreeing about household chores

  • Wanting sex and intimacy at different times

  • Feeling disconnected like maybe you’ve outgrown them

  • Misunderstanding them and not feeling heard

  • Wondering how important you are to them

 

Is Communication the Key?

Maybe you’ve heard that communication is the key. That everything would be fine if you and your partner could just communicate better. While communication is important, it’s not usually the solution to the problems most couples face.

Successful relationships require emotional safety. If you know you matter to your partner(s) and that they’ll be there for you when you need them…the rest falls into place. I’ll help you create safety, understanding, and honest connection in your relationship.

 

Who It’s For

You are committed to staying in your current relationship

You take responsibility for yourself

You are looking for honest feedback

You want to make changes to your own thoughts, feelings, & behaviors

You aren’t hoping I’ll just side with you in blaming your partner(s)

You would like help with understanding and navigating the unique needs of one or more partners being highly-sensitive (HSP)

You are looking for a therapist who is sex-positive and LGBTQIA & kink/poly/ENM affirming