Desiree S. Howell, Ph.D. Desiree S. Howell, Ph.D.

Setting Boundaries Feels Unsafe: Why We Reward Unwanted Behavior

Many of us unknowingly reinforce unhealthy behavior in others simply because it feels familiar—even if it’s exhausting or painful. This post explores how to stop overfunctioning in relationships with a parent, boss, or partner, and start setting boundaries rooted in self-respect. With practical steps and real-life examples, you’ll learn how to let go of rescuing others and reclaim your energy and worth.

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Desiree S. Howell, Ph.D. Desiree S. Howell, Ph.D.

Why Privacy During Your Autism and ADHD Assessments Matters More Than You Think

Privacy during your Autism and ADHD assessments is essential for emotional safety, authenticity, and empowerment. In this post, we explore why confidentiality matters, what a private assessment should include, and how to advocate for your needs. Choosing an assessor who respects your privacy can transform your journey into a safe and affirming experience.

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Desiree S. Howell, Ph.D. Desiree S. Howell, Ph.D.

No Demand Days for Burnout Recovery: Giving Yourself Permission to Just Be

No demand days for burnout recovery are a powerful way to press pause on productivity and prioritize deep rest. By embracing freedom from expectations, you can reset your nervous system, reduce burnout symptoms, and reconnect with your authentic self. This guide explains how to structure a no demand day and overcome common challenges like guilt or logistical barriers.

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